In Your Pants 05.14.08

Posted: May 14, 2008
In Your Pants 05.14.08

Everyone's favorite pretty lady who talks about sexual issues is back! Anna David will be here live in the studio to answer your questions.

Here's what Anna David has to say about herself:

"Anna David has been on staff at Premiere and Parenting, was a fulltime freelancer at People, wrote a sex and relationship column for Razor, and has also been published in Details, Playboy, Cosmo, Maxim, Stuff, Redbook, Teen Vogue, The LA Times, Vanity Fair, Variety, People, Us Weekly, TV Guide,The New York Post, Tatler, Esquire UK, Movieline, LA Confidential, Vegas, and Ocean Drive, among many others.

She's a pop culture expert for The Today Show, appears regularly on Fox Reality Channel's Reality Remix, and has also been featured on ESPN's Cold Pizza, Fox's The Best Damn Sports Show Period, NBC's The Other Half, The Style Network's Modern Girl's Guide to Life, and a collection of shows on VH1 and E! Her first novel, Party Girl, is out now." Read on to see Anna's answers to today's questions.

I’m only turned on by the characters in video games. Is this weird?

Well, it's not the healthiest thing in the world. Female video characters, like any fictional characters, tend to not have a whole lot in common with the typical woman out there in the world because they're exaggerated versions of humanity. In a sense, I think your issue is similar to the one porn-obsessed men have. 

It's just not realistic and if you want to be able to make your sex life something you share with another person and don't just experience on your own, I think you need to work on expanding your view of what’s erotic. You can start by trying to find characters in movies or images in magazines to fuel your fantasies, then look for real people who resemble them and ultimately focus on the actual girls you're interacting with. 

Essentially, it's time to turn off the Wii and open your eyes to the real people out there.

Is it ok to break-up to see other people and then get back together?

Sure, it's "ok" to break up to see other people and then get back together but you may want to look at why you'd want to do that. If you're dating someone and still eager to be with someone else, then it's safe to assume that you're either not available to be in a relationship or she's not the right girl for you. 

If that's the case and you guys break up as a result of it, why would you want to then get back together? Wouldn't the same things that caused you to feel the way you did in the first place come right back up again?
Of course, there are certainly couples who break up, check out what else is out there and then discover that what they had was comparatively great so they return to the relationship with a newfound appreciation for all that they took for granted before. 

But I would say that this is more rare than couples that break up, find themselves just as dissatisfied as they were when they were together and then hook back up again as a way of staving off loneliness. So I'd advise you to examine where you think the two of you honestly stand before making any of these decisions.


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