In Your Pants

Posted: February 20, 2008
In Your Pants

Everyone's favorite pretty lady who talks about sexual issues is back! Anna David will be here live in the studio to answer your questions.

Here's what Anna David has to say about herself:

"Anna David has been on staff at Premiere and Parenting, was a fulltime freelancer at People, wrote a sex and relationship column for Razor, and has also been published in Details, Playboy, Cosmo, Maxim, Stuff, Redbook, Teen Vogue, The LA Times, Vanity Fair, Variety, People, Us Weekly, TV Guide,The New York Post, Tatler, Esquire UK, Movieline, LA Confidential, Vegas, and Ocean Drive, among many others.

She's a pop culture expert for The Today Show, appears regularly on Fox Reality Channel's Reality Remix, and has also been featured on ESPN's Cold Pizza, Fox's The Best Damn Sports Show Period, NBC's The Other Half, The Style Network's Modern Girl's Guide to Life, and a collection of shows on VH1 and E! Her first novel, Party Girl, is out now." Read on to see her answers to today's questions.

My ex told me that if she ever finds out I have a new girlfriend she is going to tell everyone all the secrets I told her. She also said she’s going to make up awful stories about me. I just met a new girl, and I like her, but I am terrified to get close to her because of my ex. What should I do?

The first thing I'd suggest you do is look closely at the kind of girls you're choosing to date; the fact that you got involved with someone who is that vindictive suggests that you're perhaps not picking the people that are best for you. That being said, she's clearly a girl who really cared for you, is devastated by the fact that you're not together anymore and is trying to control the situation in whatever desperate way she can find.

Her threats may well be empty once she realizes that she can't say anything that will get you do what she wants (that is, go back to her). If she does follow through and tries to ruin your reputation, just know that what people say says a lot more about them than it does about whoever they're talking about. Meaning: anyone she's blabbing to is going to be able to put two and two together and realize that she's only saying what she is out of bitterness.

And most people tend to tune that kind of thing out. All of this is meant to say that you shouldn't be any means let her threats stop you from going out there and moving on. I say the more distance you can put between yourself and this girl, the better.



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