In Your Pants

Posted: August 15, 2007
In Your Pants

Everyone's favorite pretty lady who talks about sexual issues is back! Anna David will be here live in the studio to answer your questions.

Here's what Anna David has to say about herself:

"Anna David has been on staff at Premiere and Parenting, was a fulltime freelancer at People, wrote a sex and relationship column for Razor, and has also been published in Details, Playboy, Cosmo, Maxim, Stuff, Redbook, Teen Vogue, The LA Times, Vanity Fair, Variety, People, Us Weekly, TV Guide,The New York Post, Tatler, Esquire UK, Movieline, LA Confidential, Vegas, and Ocean Drive, among many others.

She's a pop culture expert for The Today Show, appears regularly on Fox Reality Channel's Reality Remix, and has also been featured on ESPN's Cold Pizza, Fox's The Best Damn Sports Show Period, NBC's The Other Half, The Style Network's Modern Girl's Guide to Life, and a collection of shows on VH1 and E! Her first novel, Party Girl, is out now." Click here to order Party Girl from Amazon and look below to see a video for her literary gem and to read her answers to today's questions.

I have been dating one girl for about six months now. The main reason I started dating her was so that I could get closer to her sister. Now, her sister is welcoming my advance, so how do I make the jump from sister to sister without destroying my current girlfriend? Do I try and date them both? 

That's a pretty harsh game you're playing, my friend. Rather than lecture you about how your girlfriend of six months is a person and not a tool designed to help you get what you really want, let me just ask you to consider how you'd like the situation to be handled if you were in your her situation. I firmly believe what goes around comes around and using her like that sets you up for a hell of a dose of karmic payback.

I say, nothing particularly healthy can come from you dating either of the sisters. (Really, what does it say about your girlfriend's sister that she's flirting with her sister's boyfriend? Is that the kind of person you want to be with?) Sometimes complicated situations or taboo dating scenarios can seem appealing because a lot of us have been conditioned to believe that drama means excitement means passion and/or love.

But dating is, in fact, the opposite: it's about growing comfortable with someone you trust. If you want to become the kind of guy women will want to be with, I say get out now while you still have a shred of dignity left.


My question involves the Speedo. It’s getting a lot hotter outside. You see a lot more men wearing them on the beach. From two beautiful women, I was wondering your opinion. Is it a good thing to wear a Speedo? Do you like seeing men wear one? Is it a positive to see if a man is packing meat, or does it look like he’s stuffed two shriveled grapes and a triple-A battery down his pants?

I have to be honest: I am thoroughly turned off by the Speedo -- the mere thought of one, let alone the sight of a man wearing one. To me, it's one of the cheesiest, least appealing items of clothing (if you can call it that) a man can don and I can pretty much guarantee -- shallow as it may sound -- that I'd never be interested in a guy who wears one.

In much the same way that a woman wearing a sweet but somewhat suggestive dress is far sexier than a girl who's letting every part of her body hang out of her clothes, a guy wearing a regular old swimsuit is far more appealing than the guy keeping his junk encased by essentially a small piece of cloth. That being said, there have to be women out there who find Speedos immensely appealing -- though I have to admit the only people I know who like them are gay men.




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