Match.com users reveal top strategies for finding romance online.

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By Sierra Versaggi

online dating There are a lot of "experts" out there with different theories and advice on dating and relationships. Whether they think men are from Mars or women should follow the Rules, most experts agree that online dating is one of the main ways singles are meeting each other. Being single and living in San Francisco, I've learned a lot about what works and what doesn't with online dating on Match.com. Here are some great tips to follow when you create your profile.

  1. Be creative when choosing your user name.
    When you first start emailing on Match.com, remember that you're using a code name. Be sure to choose something that's catchy or fun. The user name is definitely indicative of how creative a person is. Something like John1234 or SFGuy is boring.

  2. It's OK to be a little flirty with your headline.
    Keep your headline short and punchy. The goal it to create something that will attract someone's attention without being too forward. Having a sense of humor is definitely key. Not only is it great to be witty in your headline, but add a little humor to your profile as well. In my book, it has to be funny and witty.

  3. Add interesting and unique details about yourself.
    Don't just list the usual profile details, such as, "I like hiking, walks on the beach, and candlelight dinners." Boring! Successful profiles go beyond the average. Try something like, "I don't sweat the small stuff." It's also important to mention where you're originally from and how long you've been in your new city.

  4. Be honest.
    It's important that you're straightforward in your profile. And if you're only looking for a beautiful model, then say that in your profile. The beauty of online dating is that your search can be as specific or as broad as you want.

  5. Add photos to your profile.
    Photos are a big deal. They're the initial attraction. People really want to see facial expressions. Use a recent photo that shows off your captivating smile. But don't put up your airbrushed studio head shot or a pic from your webcam that has the fishbowl effect. Stay away from images that have other people in them. Find a photo with just you.

  6. Sending a response.
    Send an email, not a novel! Take just enough time to say hi and point out a few things that you found interesting about the person's profile.


Sierra Versaggi uses Match.com. She has this advice for women looking for love online.

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