Every week, Anna David answers your sex and romance questions in the safety and calm of our studios and she does a bang up job, but recently she decided to do something a bit different, something more raw and exciting. Rather than wait for you timid lambs to come to her with your sex questions, she decided to go to you.
Anna combed the streets of New York looking for curious souls with sex on the brain and she had no problem finding them. Indulge your voyeuristic side and allow yourself this one, lingering look into the hidden and erotic thought's of the Big Apple's most amorous and free spirited denizens.
I love my girlfriend, I really do. But lately I find myself more and more attracted to her best friend. I even think about her sometimes when we are doing it. I don’t want her friend; I just want the feelings to stop. How can I overcome this?
You can overcome it by realizing that it's not about how hot your girlfriend's friend is: it's about retreating from intimacy with the girl you're with. We tend to get turned on by what's taboo and since having sex with your girl's best friend would probably have catastrophic consequences, then that certainly qualifies as taboo.
So, remind yourself that this is your mind screwing with you and that acting on this impulse would be the worst move you could make. And, who knows, maybe it's time to try spicing up your sex life with your girlfriend by incorporating some of your fantasies into what you're doing (though none that involve the best friend!).