Everyone's favorite pretty lady who talks about sexual issues is back! Anna David will be here live in the studio to answer your questions.
Here's what Anna David has to say about herself:
"Anna David has been on staff at Premiere and Parenting, was a fulltime freelancer at People, wrote a sex and relationship column for Razor, and has also been published in Details, Playboy, Cosmo, Maxim, Stuff, Redbook, Teen Vogue, The LA Times, Vanity Fair, Variety, People, Us Weekly, TV Guide,The New York Post, Tatler, Esquire UK, Movieline, LA Confidential, Vegas, and Ocean Drive, among many others.
She's a pop culture expert for The Today Show, appears regularly on Fox Reality Channel's Reality Remix, and has also been featured on ESPN's Cold Pizza, Fox's The Best Damn Sports Show Period, NBC's The Other Half, The Style Network's Modern Girl's Guide to Life, and a collection of shows on VH1 and E! Her first novel, Party Girl, is out now." Click here to order Party Girl from Amazon and look below to see a video for her literary gem and to read her answers to today's questions.
I never know what to say to women at bars and clubs. What are some pick-up lines that have worked on you girls?
Here's the thing: pick up lines have never worked on me. But men who've used pick-up lines have managed to pick me up. No, this isn't a riddle; it's a fact. Women go for the guy, not for what he says, and guys that deliver one "Don't I know you from somewhere" or "Can I have your number because I lost mine" after another, without any depth or interesting things to say between, aren't going to fare as well as the men who are actually striving for a real connection.
Even if your goal is just to be with the woman for this one night and no other, make an effort to see what actually makes her tick and connect with her on more than just a shallow level. And keep in mind that if a woman is attracted to you or just thinks you're cool, you can probably say whatever you damn well please and she's not going to change her mind.
If she's not feeling you, however, you can say the most charming things imaginable and still make no progress. In other words, leave the lines for the less aware and bring yourself out to the bars and clubs.
I’ve got a bit of a foot fetish and was wondering why people have fetishes and if it’s normal. Oh, and Olivia, could you show us your feet?
Well, of all the fetishes that exist, the foot one is the most common and fetishism tends to be far more common for men than for women. But keep in mind that technically speaking, it's not considered a foot fetish unless you literally can't reach orgasm unless you're focusing on someone's feet.
It's said that foot fetishists can develop their predilection for this body part if they weren't picked up or held enough by their mothers during childhood and their main association with Mom is therefore with her feet, but this is fairly controversial since experts really don’t know how fetishists come to exist.
My best advice if you have a foot fetish is to find a woman who shares this passion with you. If you can't, try to convert her by caressing every one of her toes and sucking on them until she feels the same way you do. Keep in mind, however, that some women are going to have a Just Say No policy on feet that no amount of toe kisses can surmount.