Everyone's favorite pretty lady who talks about sexual issues is back! Anna David will be here live in the studio to answer your questions.
Here's what Anna David has to say about herself:
"Anna David has been on staff at Premiere and Parenting, was a fulltime freelancer at People, wrote a sex and relationship column for Razor, and has also been published in Details, Playboy, Cosmo, Maxim, Stuff, Redbook, Teen Vogue, The LA Times, Vanity Fair, Variety, People, Us Weekly, TV Guide,The New York Post, Tatler, Esquire UK, Movieline, LA Confidential, Vegas, and Ocean Drive, among many others.
She's a pop culture expert for The Today Show, appears regularly on Fox Reality Channel's Reality Remix, and has also been featured on ESPN's Cold Pizza, Fox's The Best Damn Sports Show Period, NBC's The Other Half, The Style Network's Modern Girl's Guide to Life, and a collection of shows on VH1 and E! Her first novel, Party Girl, is out now." Click here to order Party Girl from Amazon and look below to see a video for her literary gem and to read her answers to today's questions.
I like to pick up women at bars and often have sex with them. I’m always extra careful with protection, but is there anything I should watch for?
The main thing you should probably look out for is the possibility that you may well be inviting raging psychopaths into your home. Consider the fact that some say roughly one in three people is mentally ill.
Does that shed any new light on the last three women you’ve picked up and slept with (or at least on one of them)?
Nothing kills the moment like the discovery that the girl who just handcuffed you to the bedposts actually swallowed the key. In all seriousness, you really ought to remind yourself that inviting strangers into your home (or going into theirs) is, in some ways, asking for trouble.
Also, even though you’re careful to use protection, plenty of STD’s can be communicated during foreplay (i.e., before the condom is on). And you might want to take a look at if you're fearful of having an actual relationship.
Lately, I’ve been checking my hot neighbor out through her window. I’m afraid of getting caught, but I can’t help it if she’s going to walk around all night in her underwear. How can I strike up a conversation with her without sounding like a total stalker?
Well, for starters, I'd suggest not letting her know that you've been spying on her. She may well be an exhibitionist who gets off on the fact that neighbors are watching her but if that's the case, wait for her to tell you. Secondly, I'd try reminding yourself that she's a human being -- flesh and blood, just like you, and not simply an object out to titillate you.
Otherwise, your eyes may well be popping out of your head when you're asking her if you can borrow her sugar. Which, by the way, might be a perfect thing to talk to her about.
One convenient aspect of having a thing for your neighbor is that you have an excuse to ask her if she has any number of things -- in addition to sugar, there's salt, eggs, or anything someone cooking might have realistically forgotten he didn't have until it was too late to run out and get it.
I would, however, keep these requests to a minimum -- women are all too aware of when men are making up excuses to talk to them and you run the risk of annoying her. So just use your opportunity wisely -- when you're asking to borrow something, offer up interesting things about yourself, ask her a few questions, and see if she responds to you. If you strike out -- hey, you'll always have her nighttime shows.