Everyone's favorite pretty lady who talks about sexual issues is back! Anna David will be here live in the studio to answer your questions.
Here's what Anna David has to say about herself:
"Anna David has been on staff at Premiere and Parenting, was a fulltime freelancer at People, wrote a sex and relationship column for Razor, and has also been published in Details, Playboy, Cosmo, Maxim, Stuff, Redbook, Teen Vogue, The LA Times, Vanity Fair, Variety, People, Us Weekly, TV Guide,The New York Post, Tatler, Esquire UK, Movieline, LA Confidential, Vegas, and Ocean Drive, among many others.
She's a pop culture expert for The Today Show, appears regularly on Fox Reality Channel's Reality Remix, and has also been featured on ESPN's Cold Pizza, Fox's The Best Damn Sports Show Period, NBC's The Other Half, The Style Network's Modern Girl's Guide to Life, and a collection of shows on VH1 and E! Her first novel, Party Girl, is out now." Click here to order Party Girl from Amazon and look below to see a video for her literary gem and to read her answers to today's questions.
I have a friend who is a virgin and her boyfriend doesn’t believe her. Is there a way she can prove this without going to a doctor?
Not only is there no way to prove this without going to a doctor -- there's really no way to prove this even with a doctor. Some people mistakenly believe that a girl's hymen is fully intact until the moment she has sex but the fact is that everything from horseback riding to using tampons can break it.
Some women don't even have a hymen! The far more interesting question to me is why your friend's boyfriend doesn't believe her and why her virginity is so important to him. Since relationships are built on trust, the fact that the guy is accusing her of lying about something so personal and important suggests a less-than-healthy relationship. I say that rather than trying to prove her virginity to her guy, the girl should be asking herself why she's even with someone who's asking that of her.
Hi Anna & Olivia – I’m a virgin, and two of my close friends have confronted me about having a threesome. They’re both women; one is sexually active and the other is a virgin like me. I’m not sure what to do, could you please help me?
I don't think a ménage is the way to go on your first time out. Losing your virginity is an extremely intimate act and lots of people wait until they actually believe they're in love with someone before taking this massive step. A threesome, by its very nature, isn't intimate and is far more about getting off visually and by being "bad" than it is about normal, functional sex.
Also, people sometimes don't understand going into a menage that they can be emotionally overwhelming experiences: One of the girls could get jealous that you're lavishing more attention on the other one; one, two, or all three of you could get freaked out by delving into something relatively risqué when sexual experiences are so new to you; the virginal girl could have a meltdown. You really don't know. I'd pass on this experience and hold out for the real thing.