Everyone's favorite pretty lady who talks about sexual issues is back! Anna David will be here live in the studio to answer your questions.
Here's what Anna David has to say about herself:
"Anna David has been on staff at Premiere and Parenting, was a fulltime freelancer at People, wrote a sex and relationship column for Razor, and has also been published in Details, Playboy, Cosmo, Maxim, Stuff, Redbook, Teen Vogue, The LA Times, Vanity Fair, Variety, People, Us Weekly, TV Guide,The New York Post, Tatler, Esquire UK, Movieline, LA Confidential, Vegas, and Ocean Drive, among many others. She's a pop culture expert for The Today Show, appears regularly on Fox Reality Channel's Reality Remix, and has also been featured on ESPN's Cold Pizza, Fox's The Best Damn Sports Show Period, NBC's The Other Half, The Style Network's Modern Girl's Guide to Life, and a collection of shows on VH1 and E! Her first novel, Party Girl, is coming out June 1, 2007." Click here to pre-order Party Girl from Amazon.
Click below for Anna's answers to today's questions!
I haven’t dated for a while so if I do get a date, should I lie about when my last date was so I don’t look like a loser?
First off, I hate words like loser – it’s just a label you’re giving yourself unnecessarily. And maybe I’m naïve but I don’t think that outside of high school, people actually categorize other people that way. Also, why is when you last had a date relevant? I tend to think that a guy who isn’t out with different girls all the time is discerning and waiting to find someone he’d really like to get to know. But I also believe we have the power to manifest our realities – positively and negatively. Meaning: if you believe the fact that you haven’t had a date in x number of weeks, months or years makes you a loser, you will absolutely transmit that thought and feeling to someone else. So I say change your thinking about it – consider yourself someone with high standards and believe that the girl who goes out with you is lucky because dating isn’t something you do all the time (though obviously don’t act cocky about the whole thing). There’s never a need to lie, but it’s especially unnecessary when the truth is nothing to be ashamed of.
How do I ask my girlfriend or hint to her to shave her pubic area for me?
Be direct. I actually once had a guy admit to me years after we dated that he broke up with me because he wanted me to shave down there and while I thought that was ridiculous – and have used this anecdote in plenty of articles and stories -- it did show me to how important this kind of thing can be to some men. So tell your girlfriend what you’d like – and then be prepared for her to do exactly what she wants. It is her body, after all. But it also may be worth looking into why this is something that’s so important to you. I have to admit that I’m a little wary of guys who like women who are completely hairless – it’s just a bit extreme and suggests an interest in women looking like little girls. So take some time to analyze your behavior and then ask your girlfriend as directly as possible if she’ll do what you want. If she says no and that’s something you can’t live with, take it from someone who knows and tell her that now and not three years after the two of you have ended.