Everyone's favorite pretty lady who talks about sexual issues is back! Anna David will be here live in the studio to answer your questions.
Here's what Anna David has to say about herself:
"Anna David has been on staff at Premiere and Parenting, was a fulltime freelancer at People, wrote a sex and relationship column for Razor, and has also been published in Details, Playboy, Cosmo, Maxim, Stuff, Redbook, Teen Vogue, The LA Times, Vanity Fair, Variety, People, Us Weekly, TV Guide,The New York Post, Tatler, Esquire UK, Movieline, LA Confidential, Vegas, and Ocean Drive, among many others. She's a pop culture expert for The Today Show, appears regularly on Fox Reality Channel's Reality Remix, and has also been featured on ESPN's Cold Pizza, Fox's The Best Damn Sports Show Period, NBC's The Other Half, The Style Network's Modern Girl's Guide to Life, and a collection of shows on VH1 and E! Her first novel, Party Girl, is coming out in July, 2007 from Regan Books (HarperCollins)."
My girlfriend doesn’t want to have sex more than once a week but I have a really high sex drive – I need it more like three times a day. I masturbate twice a day if I have time. Do I need a new girlfriend or what?
Now, I don’t know how long the two of you have been dating but clearly your sex drive is on the high side and your girlfriend’s is on the low -- so you may not be sexually compatible. Still, you’d be hard pressed to find a woman who wants to have sex three times a day. Whether or not your sex drive is something you should be concerned about is something you can determine by figuring out how preoccupied you are with sex. Does it interfere with your normal, everyday life? Do you risk embarrassing yourself in order to do your twice-a-day masturbation? That – as well as trying to reach a compromise with your girlfriend -- may be something to examine.
What’s the first thing you notice about a guy when he comes up to you?
Aside from the obvious (say, what he says or whether or not he’s drunk), the first thing I notice about a guy I don’t know is if he’s looking at me or if he’s glancing all around – basically, whether or not he’s engaged in the conversation. After that, the list of what I notice goes something like this: smile, eyes, hair, body – and then, of course the random pluses (dimples) and minuses (inordinate number of tattoos, bad breath). But before I’ve taken the time to break down the little things I like or don’t like about a stranger, I’ve subconsciously already taken in so much more. I know I say this all the time, but women are experts at reading confidence, and confident guys are comfortable in their own skin as they approach you, while the other kind have more of what I call “Hollywood cocktail party eyes.” But all girls are different and some even find a guy who’s less engaged easier to talk to, so it really does depend on the girl.