Everyone's favorite pretty lady who talks about sexual issues is back! Anna David will be here live in the studio to answer your questions.
Here's what Anna David has to say about herself:
"Anna David has been on staff at Premiere and Parenting, was a fulltime freelancer at People, wrote a sex and relationship column for Razor, and has also been published in Details, Playboy, Cosmo, Maxim, Stuff, Redbook, Teen Vogue, The LA Times, Vanity Fair, Variety, People, Us Weekly, TV Guide,The New York Post, Tatler, Esquire UK, Movieline, LA Confidential, Vegas, and Ocean Drive, among many others. She's a pop culture expert for The Today Show, appears regularly on Fox Reality Channel's Reality Remix, and has also been featured on ESPN's Cold Pizza, Fox's The Best Damn Sports Show Period, NBC's The Other Half, The Style Network's Modern Girl's Guide to Life, and a collection of shows on VH1 and E! Her first novel, Party Girl, is coming out in July, 2007."
Click below to read Anna's answers to today's questions!
What does it mean when a girl has a lot of guy friends? She swears they’re nothing more than friends but I’m suspicious.
A lot of times, absolutely nothing. She’s just a girl who likes playing blackjack, shooting baskets, or doing other things that most of the girls she knows do not. Sometimes, however, girls who have a lot of guy friends are either scared of other women or get overly competitive with them; a lot of girls like that use the attention they get from guys to give them self-esteem. If that’s the case, that still doesn’t mean you need to be suspicious of her – if she’s dating you, then she clearly likes you better than the rest of the guys she knows. If it’s really a concern for you, you could always try bringing up the conversation with her – try asking her who her best friends are and see where the conversation goes from there – but the fact is that she is who she is and you won’t get anywhere trying to change her.
I’m really bad at first dates. What are some things we should be talking about?
There’s no standard introduction-main topic-conclusion-like format to follow and I think the most important thing to remember is that you’re on the date to figure out if you like the other person – not to try to make them fall for you. So rather than thinking about what you should be doing, remember that you’re in the information-gathering stage – which means you ought to try asking her questions and gaugeing her responses (though not like you’re an investigative reporter or from the CIA). The dirty little secret of communication is that most people really like to talk about themselves and thus may conclude an evening thinking they really liked someone when the truth is that person just asked them a lot of questions and let them talk about themselves. That being said, you’re not totally off the hook in terms of information revealing – be willing to answer any question you pose and don’t be afraid to offer up information (so long as it’s not an “over-share,” which we covered a few weeks ago).